Prayer Time with God is Very Important (TMF:545)

Peace to Live By: Prayer Time with God is Very Important (TMF:545) - Daniel Litton
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       A man might be interested in a girl, but she doesn’t send enough feedback to the guy. So, the guy ends up thinking the girl wasn’t interested in him. Then the girl wonders why the guy is no longer talking to her. It is true, ladies, that you don’t want to appear desperate—that’s a good thing. But don’t wall yourself up so much that you are not sending any signals at all—if you are interested. And, of course, guys can sometimes do this too. So, this is a double-sided problem. I want to take a moment and talk about prayer here. It is important for you ladies to be spending time in prayer with God, for really he is the love of your life. You need to go to him for help and counsel. He is there to listen to you and guide you down the right path. If there is a man you are interested in, ask God about him and let him lead you in the way you should go. Ask God to bless the potential relationship, or growing relationship, if it is his will. Then, the next time you see and interact with the person, see if God blesses it, or if it doesn’t appear to be going in that direction. God wants to help you—he wants to lead you to the right person. Also, if you need to know the truth about something with the guy, ask God to show you the truth. He will—if you will trust in Him.

Single Women & Their Attraction Signals (TMF:544)

Peace to Live By: Single Women & Their Attraction Signals (TMF:544) - Daniel Litton
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       And for single woman, make sure you keep watch on your attraction signals and what you are doing. Be careful not to send signals to a man you’re not interested in. So, keep watch on the way you act toward a single man, because you may accidentally be sending signals you are not intending to send. Us, guys, can sometimes take things the wrong ways. But, it’s not just our problem. You need to keep watch on yourself, as a single woman, to make sure you’re sending appropriate singles based on your attraction, whether just a friend or a potential interest. But, there is a flip side to this, and that is some women are so afraid of appearing desperate that they will not send attraction signals at all. But ladies, you sometimes have to help us guys out here a little. A man might be interested in a girl, but she doesn’t send enough feedback to the guy. So, the guy ends up thinking the girl wasn’t interested in him. Then the girl wonders why the guy is no longer talking to her, no longer appearing to be interested. It is true, ladies, that you don’t want to appear desperate—that’s a good thing. But don’t wall yourself up so much that you are not sending any signals at all—if you are interested. And, of course, guys can sometimes do this too. So, this is a double-sided problem.

Important Steps for Women in Avoiding Adultery (TMF:543)

Peace to Live By: Important Steps for Women in Avoiding Adultery (TMF:543) - Daniel Litton
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       Now, perhaps you’re a married woman, and you have found attraction with another man. Hopefully, he doesn’t know you are attracted to him. That way, you can work to extinguish the flame in your mind—through praying, confessing and accountability with a trusted Christian lady-friend, and avoiding the person. It is important to quench these thoughts before they get out of control. But, perhaps, you have exchanged attraction with the man, and he knows you like him and is attracted to you. Well, at this point you are going to have to stop sending attraction signals. You are going to have to avoid this person no matter what—because you don’t want to have any chance at this blossoming into an affair. By doing this, it will be pleasing to God and saving yourself, and your marriage. And for single woman, make sure you keep watch on your attraction signals and what you are doing. Be careful not to send signals to a man you’re not interested in. But probably, you wont even realize you are sending signals that makes the man think you are attracted. So, keep watch on the way you act toward a single man, because you may accidentally be sending signals you are not intending to send. Us, guys, can sometimes take things the wrong ways. But, it’s not just our problem.

We Have God's Power to Overcome Weaknesses (TMF:542)

Peace to Live By: We Have God's Power to Overcome Weaknesses (TMF:542) - Daniel Litton
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       I want us to examine a passage in 2 Corinthians chapter 10 about controlling one’s thoughts. Let’s start reading this passage in verse 3: “For though we walk in the flesh, we are not waging war according to the flesh. For the weapons of our warfare are not of the flesh but have divine power to destroy strongholds. We destroy arguments and every lofty opinion raised against the knowledge of God, and take every thought captive to obey Christ” (2 Corinthians 10:3-6, ESV). We note here that no matter how much reconstruction is needed in the mind, whether just a little or a lot, that we have God’s power to overcome weaknesses in the mind—even strongholds. When a person thinks incorrect things over and over again, Satan gains a stronghold in the mind of a person, whether a man or woman. For women, you have to start to rework your thoughts in thinking right things. You do this from learning verses and passages from God’s Word—both passages to combat your incorrect thoughts, and passages to give you new things to think about, which are from God Himself. Therefore, a woman can destroy any thoughts that come into her mind that contradicts what she knows God has said in his Word. When Satan brings temptation, the temptation can be overcome. Then, the woman can “take every thought captive to obey Christ.”

A Woman's Thoughts Should First be on God (TMF:541)

Peace to Live By: A Woman's Thoughts Should First be on God (TMF:541) - Daniel Litton
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       I also want to note here, for women who are dating, that it is not wrong for you to be thinking about your man throughout the day. It’s not something God forbids, it’s only natural. So, don’t feel bad if you find yourself thinking about the guy a lot. When you’re dating someone, it only makes sense that would be thinking a lot about the other person. The guy, I’m sure, is thinking about you. This, of course, doesn’t mean you should be obsessed with your man. Life is more than dating or marriage. Your thoughts should first be on God. He is the true meaning to life. Pleasing him, and pleasing him in your thought-life, is what you want to be focusing on first and foremost. I want us to examine a passage in 2 Corinthians chapter 10 about controlling one’s thoughts. Let’s start reading this passage in verse 3: “For though we walk in the flesh, we are not waging war according to the flesh. For the weapons of our warfare are not of the flesh but have divine power to destroy strongholds. We destroy arguments and every lofty opinion raised against the knowledge of God, and take every thought captive to obey Christ” (2 Corinthians 10:3-6, ESV).